Saturday, December 5, 2009

serial 'hanging'


Aren't all single people serial hangers, in a way though? Hardly malicious, it's not like serial hangers sleep around and are generally on the prawl for new beit every other second. The way i see it, serial hanging is the right every singleton reserves in their selection of whom they hang out with. I've been out with a different guy for the past few weekends, and no they weren't dates, just friends hanging out. And is that wrong if it's a different 'male' each weekend? I don't think so , though it could send out the wrong message to people who see me each time with a different guy. Not that i care really, i'm sure i come across as a playa playa (lol) which was never bad for anyone's reputation. Don't people love you more when they think they can't handle you?

So coffee with john on a monday, a movie with jack on tuesday, a drink to celebrate midweek with paul, a puza thursday bash with patrick and full blown clubbing on friday with musa can't be as awful as it sounds right? I do hang out with my galfriends though i always find it easier to hang with my guy friends. Less borrowing of shoes and bitching that way. A bit of serial hanging gone wrong does happen though, sadly. Like when sweet musa suddenly confesses his undying love for me or when i fall in 'like' with patrick. Serial hanging becomes difficult then because now musa gets all mushy, on the other hand i'm thinking of patrick before i go to bed and dreaming of him! LOL. It gets nasty when patrick says he ain't that into me and i take it all out on musa.And the other hangers get official 'girlfriends' who don't get the whole hanging thing at all!

Serial hanging gone bad, neh? LOL, though on the whole, i'm happily serial hanging as opposed to actual dating... things are somewhat simpler that way. No forgetting of anniversary's
or having to explain the days when i just want to be alone and the next person can't get that!

1 comment:

  1. I think i'm in the course of becoming a serial dater.. not hanger.. hanger seems much better though.. might consider it.. like you said .. much simpler... emotion wise..

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